This article by the Rev Candace Chellow-Hodge looks at what it means to be married, gay or straight:

During a recent radio show appearance, a conservative pastor told the audience that gays and lesbians are unfit for marriage because “it takes discipline,” which is apparently something gays and lesbians don’t have.

The pastor recounted his trips to the gym where plenty of delicious women work out their amazing bodies, sorely tempting this man of God to stray from his wife. But, this pastor insisted, he had “the discipline to go home” to his wife every night, despite the comely distractions at his favorite workout spot.

When I finally got a chance to talk, I told the pastor I agreed with him that marriage can be demanding. I had just spent five hours on a cross-country flight sitting next to two beautiful women with amazing bodies. I occupied the aisle seat and when they wanted to walk the aisle or use the bathroom, they each insisted on leaning into me and stepping over me instead of allowing me to get out of my seat and let them exit the row. I got to see just about every inch of them during the flight.

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